As we approach the holidays, many of us may be anticipating gathering with family. Others may be contemplating how things will be different this year, because of changes to the traditional gathering. Regardless of how we celebrate the holidays, it is likely we will be visited by memories and thoughts of relationships from our growing up years. How do you feel when you return to, or imagine returning to, the table of your childhood?  Holidays are often a strong reminder that leaving home is a life long process.